Young Persons Mentor/Uplifting Parenting –

Sharing consistently

Our consistent routines allow us to share our greater gifts.

The harmony which is our base permeates our other activities.

Starting from the consistent expression of order and  harmony, we create more in the world around us.

Our greatest gift is our consistency of order harmony, peace and inspiration.

We allow these to come into our lives so consistently that there is an overflow.

We are led to contribute this overflow in practical ways.

We share in our schools and in other service organizations.

We make sure everything remains in balance throughout our household.

Everything which a family member is involved in receives a greater sense  of order and support.

We continue to nurture ourselves through this process in order to remain fresh and whole.

We realize that our consistency depends on our ability to listen quietly within.

We are able to discern what is important and to address it in a timely manner.

We are able to consistently receive messages of peace.

We are clear on what we are able to do, and we create a realistic schedule.

We do not take on too much though leading a fulfilling life.

We are able to share within our means.

We do not pressure or overtax ourselves.

We do not respond to harassment.

We are so balanced and assured that we can give consistently in a gracious manner.

We live our strong example for our household.

They learn what they can do to give consistently in a nurturing environment.

They are responsible and caring.

They are aware and love to make their uplifting contribution.

In this way, there is a unified and consistent feeling of giving and support at home.

© 2023 Kathryn Hardage 

www.sharinspirationandpeace.com 

Young Persons Mentor/Uplifting Parenting –

A complete household

Completeness in my household depends on my faithfulness.

I am faithful about inner listening.

When I turn to Spirit for solutions, I find them.

The wonderful thing is that these solutions are readily available.

They complete me and allow me to fulfill my day.

Through turning to Spirit, the solutions I find are permanent.

They deal with the welfare of my children and assure me that their answers are within them.

When they deal with the temptations and distractions of life, they are a ready source for uplifting answers.

Instead of repeating painful memories, they turn me to the divine within.

The Divine moves us into a realm of harmony and order.

Throughout the day, it is possible to feel the peace of Guidance.

Throughout every phase of life, it is possible to find the uplifting, healing path.

Even though there are momentary distractions which may last for years, they do not take away from the thoughtful Presence of the Divine.

The faithful adherence to a practice of inner listening establishes a frequency of harmony and order which prevails throughout all time.

It is an attracting and guiding light.

It is a thread of existence which is unbreakable.

It is established through the dedicated thought of the parent as a daily practice.

It is the way parents can continue the work of caring for their children.

We complete each day with attentive caring, guided by the Divine.

Nothing is left out when we attend to our divine inner listening.

Even though we start anew each day, the completeness is within us.

This continues long after the children grow up and support themselves.

Our caring attitude toward them always completes the relationship.

© 2023  Kathryn Hardage 

www.shareinspirationandpeace.com 

Young Persons Mentor/Uplifting Parenting –

Promise and Fulfillment of Harmony

In a household there are many opportunities to fulfill promises.

The first promise is to live in an orderly manner.

This establishes the basis for fulfillment of promises.

We fulfill the promise to care for each other every day.

We fufill the promise to be courteous and respectful.

We fufill the promise to be willing to listen for inner guidance when conflicts arise.

We fulfill the promise of peaceful resolution by taking the steps which come to us.

We are willing to give up our opinion and to trust our Higher Power.

We see many tiny problems resolved in this way.

We see the solutions appear for larger challenges.

The main challenge is to keep the household pure.

There are so many influences which prey upon the good practices we are teaching.

Our consistent reassurance through continuing to keep our routines in place allows us to fulfill our promises of a harmonious place to live.

This sound foundation stands when there are challenges.

The challenges change, but the foundation does not.

It stands sure.

The requirement to serve and to contribute to the household keeps priorities in place.

By contributing to the harmony of the household, we are living in harmony with ourself.

Our children may want to explore other values, but ours remain pure and strong.

They see our consistency and learn to uphold their part.

This consistency may repel or comfort them, but it stays in place.

It is a reference point for the rest of their lives.

It may challenge us to maintain the standard.

We fulfill our promise to our highest concept of life as we do so.

© 2023 Kathryn Hardage 

www.shareinspirationandpeace.com 

Young Persons Mentor/Uplifting Parenting –

Consistent Practice

The consistent practice we set up through routines ensures that our households run well.

Our household  members have the security of knowing that they are contributing to the welfare of the household.

Our consistent practice gives the household a feeling of order and freshness.

It adds to the clarity of thinking throughout the household.

When special occasions require it, there is room for those needs to be taken care of.

Everything fits into a consistent order.

We reduce the possibility of overload and overwhelm when we are consistent in doing what we have set up.

We maintain what is important for our family to operate with consistent goals.

We are not overrun with demands from outside the family.

Our family times for reading aloud and family game night maintain important and calm communication.

We resist the pressures which would interrupt these intimate times of trust and communication.

We can relax and rest within the consistent boundaries which we have set up.

We can enjoy conversations between family members.

We can prepare and eat nutritious meals together.

We remain grounded as we do our chores together at their assigned times.

We create beautiful surroundings as we maintain our yard and garden together.

We enjoy conversations with neighbors when we are outside in our yard.

We are able to appreciate our neighbors and their activities.

We experience a sense of well-being throughout our day with this consistent foundation.

We share our daily experiences together around the dinner table.

Consistent practice creates family unity.

Our place in the community evolves as we participate from our orderly and uplifting center.

We are known for the harmony and happiness we experience and share as a family.

© 2023 Kathryn Hardage

www.shareinspirationandpeace.com 

Young Persons Mentor/Uplifting Parenting –
Supportive language within the family

Our family loves the support we can all give each other.

We can speak kindly to each other.

We can respect each other and support our self-worth.

We can guard against criticism from the outside and from the inside.

We can take action to create a more peaceful atmosphere in our home.

When we need answers, we can all take the time to take a deep breath and to listen within.

As we all take part in this action, we feel a unifying sense of peace.

We feel the calm begin to permeate us. It dissipates the fear and tension.

Of course there is a solution. Everyone can participate in the solution.

We can all take on whatever is within our area of responsbility and free up the energy to find a solution.

The person or persons needing the solution can feel the support as they resume their responsibilities and continue to listen within.

Answers come to us in the form of feelings and action.

We are led to ask a question.

We are guided to seek direction in a new way.

We are able to hear the solution as we take our first tiny step of listening.

Then action becomes clear.

Our uplifting attitude toward each other helps lessen the tension.

We are freed to enjoy the fact that a solution is being revealed.

We maintain the peace and calm with a feeling of expectation.

We all know when the solution arrives because there is a feeling of joy.

It is as though a new, uplifting discovery has been made.

We are comforted every time this happens.  

It is good to know that our inner listening together can create such a wonderful feeling within the family.

© 2023 Kathryn Hardage

www.shareinspirationandpeace.com 

Young Persons Mentor/Uplifting Parenting –

A Healthy Family

My family consists of the ideas which occupy my thought.

When I was raising children, they were pre-eminent in my thoughts.

Every action was taken to comfort and provide for them.

Since there were many children, there were many demands which had to be fulfilled.

In the normal course of the day, there were so many demands, that I became overstressed.

This continued for many years, and although I was able to take care of them, I became unhealthy.

After their graduation, I was finally able to address my own health.

I had not known how to care for myself.

Learning those steps has been demanding.

Giving myself permission to love me first is a new perspective.

I have learned the value of rest.

I have even learned that rest comes first.

I am grateful for the healthy routines I did set up so that everyone learned how to do chores and how to maintain common areas of the household.

Without a restful center, there was a lot of tension.

The more I discover about rest, the more grateful I am that I survived.

Putting rest first and building support through routines will help establish a healthy household for everyone.

It begins by rejecting the idea that women need to endure more than is healthful.

Find your inner peace through your first deep breath.

Listen for the the next step.

Do this over and over again, and you will find the resources you need for health and for healthy routines.

You are worth it.

You are here to enjoy your health and family.

You can do both when you find the balance by starting with rest.

© 2023 Kathryn Hardage

www.shareinspirationandpeace.com